Do It Better Than Him: 5 Hand Job Tips to Blow Your Man's Mind

Mastering the art of foreplay is an empowering and rewarding experience that can help take your sex life to the next level. Just like setting the mood, participating in foreplay helps you and your partner ensure that you both experience the most pleasure possible.

A hand job is an essential part of foreplay, but it's often done incorrectly, leaving your partner dissatisfied. But don't worry! We have some tips that will help you to blow his mind. Keep reading for our top 7 tips to kick your hand jobs up a notch.

1. Have Him Show You

Let's get real, we are past the days of high school hand jobs. So what you did to Nick when you were 17 probably isn't going to fly now. We are adults, and just like with all other adult tasks, communication is key. Have your man show you what he likes and doesn't like.

Sexily whispering "show me" can be a great way to have him teach you his own technique. Because the reality is, no one will give him a better hand job than himself. 

2. Know What You're Working With 

Before you dive in, make sure you know what kind of penis you are working with. For the sake of hand jobs, they are divided into two major categories: circumcised and uncircumcised. A man who is circumcised is a lot more used to his head or tip being touched, so you may wish to give this sensitive spot some extra attention.

On the other hand, a man who is uncircumcised may find this area to be too sensitive. So having him show you how he handles it first is your best bet. 

3. Grab It Like You Mean In

When it comes to crossing "mastering the perfect handy" off of your sex bucket list, one of the key variables is your grip. You want to grab firmly and maintain decent pressure through the whole experience.

Every guy is going to be a little different with what he likes but as a general rule of thumb (no pun intended) you want to grip his penis pretty tightly. You can always ask him to tell you if the pressure becomes too much. 

4. Lube It Up!

Using lube is like the "golden rule" of giving hand jobs because no one wants an Indian burn on their junk. You want to make it wet so that your hand can move up and down without skin to skin friction. The wetter it is, the more it will feel more like the real thing, which he will enjoy.

Keep in mind where you want this rendezvous to lead when you pick your lube of choice so that you find one that either tastes yummy or that won't cause unwanted friction with a condom. 

5. Find Your Rythm

Consistency is key when giving a hand job. You don't want to keep switching up your technique every 30 seconds. Slow for a few strokes then fast then back to slow won't give you the result you're looking for.

Play around and see what speed he likes best. Once you find the perfect rhythm, stick with it.

Becoming The Hand Job Expert

These 5 tips will help you to quickly become an expert at giving a hand job, which will leave both you and your partner satisfied.

So keep this article in mind when you are ready to get some "hands-on" experience. And for all your safe sex product needs, click here!