Small Penis, Big Orgasms: Top Sex Tips for Men With Small Penises

We can thank a society of supersized fast food meals and keeping up with the Joneses style houses and cars for the "bigger is better" mentality. For men with small penises, however, the struggle is real - is bigger really better?

The Hard Facts About Small Penises

First of all, do you know if you're actually working with a smaller than average penis?

Studies show the length of an average erect penis is around five inches, with only 2% of the population sporting one larger than eight inches. 

If you're one of the men who fall into the small or tiny penis category (a penis smaller than 3 inches), read on to learn how to make the most of what you're working with.

Appearances Can Be Deceiving

Women have makeup and push-up bras to make the most of their assets. If you're worried about that first impression, take steps to make the most of it, both in the bedroom and out of it.

Trimming your pubic hair is the most important step to making sure your little guy stands out. Think of a tree in a well-manicured lawn versus one on the high grass plains of Africa - which one stands out better?

Losing any extra weight you might be carrying can literally change your penis size. Pubic fat pulls skin, meaning getting rid of it can add up to two inches of length back to your penis.

Put Yourself in a Better Position

Most women don't orgasm on penetration alone. The clitoris is outside the vaginal opening, and the elusive G-spot is only an inch or two inside - good news for men only working with that much.

In order to make the most of what you have, pick positions that offer enhanced access to those areas and have better friction.

Doggy style and girl on top should make the top of your list. In missionary based positions, avoid in and out motions and use your hips to make rotating motions that keep your bodies close.

There is one position that men with small penises are better at than their heavier hung counterparts, and that's anal. If your partner is into it, you might find you're just the right size to comfortably fit where a bigger man wouldn't.

Add a toy to the mix to stimulate her vaginally, and you might find you're giving her better orgasms than she's never had before. You probably won't mind the experience either.

Speaking of....

Don't Be Afraid to Use Toys

You wouldn't question adding salt to a bland steak; why not spice up your own meat with the broad range of sex toys available?

A penis enhancing sleeve can add extra girth and stimulation if you're going strictly for more size. However, position pillows, vibrators, and cock rings can add extra sensation for both you and your partner.

Don't be intimidated by toys. Your partner will recognize and be impressed with your consideration.

Consider Options Besides Penetration

Good sex should include a whole repertoire of moves besides standard thrusting. You can't change your penis size, so up your game in other ways.

Become a master of foreplay to bring her right to the edge before sex even starts. Recruit other body parts, like your tongue and fingers, and learn to use them; your penis is less than average, but your oral technique doesn't need to be.

Consider fun alternatives that mentally heighten arousal and add a little something extra where you might be lacking.

No Shame in That Game

As the saying goes, it's not the size of the ship, it's the motion in your ocean. Most studies show that women don't actually care about penis size - good news for men with small penises. 

If you feel you're lacking in the size department, remember a little confidence goes a long way. You may not control what you're born with, but you can control how you use it.

And don't forget to use it safely, with a good fitting condom. May we suggest ribbed for her pleasure?