An Australian study found that most women are more aroused by the idea of foreplay than sex itself.
Most of us are always trying to spice things up in the bedroom but we focus more on sex itself rather than foreplay. We may try different positions or doing it in different rooms. Sometimes this works and sometimes it's disappointing.
So how can we ensure great sex every time and avoid boredom? Well, the answer is by focusing more on foreplay.
In this article, we're going to give you some great tips specifically on foreplay for her. This will hopefully bring more excitement to your bedroom and make you start craving sex a lot.
Read on for more information.
1. Start Sexting
You can start building excitement and get heated long before you're in the bedroom under the sheets. Sexting is a great way to do this and can raise the temperature quickly.
At lunchtime, send a text to her saying something like "I can't wait to be naked with you tonight". This will be unexpected and her imagination will start running wild. You can then start to explain what you'll do to her and can build suspense so she counts down the minutes to be with you.
It's easy to feel embarrassed if you've never sexted before, so you can start off slow if you like.
2. Remove Her Clothes Slowly
It can be easy to take your clothes off quickly and just start having sex. This is ideal for those afternoon quickies but not for every single time.
The longer foreplay goes on, the hotter you'll both get. You will then be gagging to have sex and she'll have more chance of orgasming.
So don't rush to take her clothes off. Take a piece off at a time and focus on that area for a bit with touching and kissing. You may want to leave her panties until last as this builds suspense.
3. Ask Her What She Likes
It's easy to assume what women like by watching porn or movies but remember that it's fake. Not every woman likes her butt slapped or her hair pulled.
If you are not sure what she likes then ask her. You may discover that she has a kinky fetish or likes a particular part of her body kissed. This will stop you from wasting your time and she'll enjoy everything more.
You'll also start being more open and can both learn from each other. This may even result in you both being more experimental and kinky in the bedroom.
Foreplay for Her
We hope you have enjoyed this article and have learned some new ways in which to spice things up.
As you can see, there are many foreplay tips for her that can drastically improve your sex lives. We recommend giving all of these a try and seeing what you both like. Remember that communication is key so be open and honest with each other.
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